In 1993, a uniquely-odd college professor introduced me to the concept of “self-awareness”. This man asked hard questions and challenged me to understand, for the first time, why-I-do-what-I-do. He helped me face my personal fears, insecurities, and maladaptive survival strategies and showed me better ways to relate to myself and those around me.

At the encouragement of this mentor, I received the first of two graduate degrees in counseling psychology. He taught me the art and science of guiding imperfect people through a process that helped them grow and become better versions of themselves. Now, almost 30 years later, I’m still impacted by his words of wisdom and guidance.

Equipping others

“Are you a leader people WANT to follow?”

Since 2004, I’ve had the honor of guiding over a thousand men and women as they embark on the same journey of self awareness. I take pride in being an expert in personal and professional relationships and how to create psychological safety.

Education, Experience, & Certifications

Personal Life

My wife, Shannon, and I both grew up in Southern California in the 70’s & 80’s. We were married in 1993 and moved to Oregon later that same year. We have four grown children—a daughter and three sons. In 2020, Shannon started working as a travel agent and Cruise specialist and together we get to travel and see the world.

Because our marriage is one of the things we’re most proud of, we started SecureMarriage.com where you can find online courses on how to have a healthy and happy relationship. We’re also the creators and hosts of the Secure Marriage Podcast where we share our struggles and successes as a married couple.