Mind Reading—How To Make Your Life Harder

Are you worried about what people are thinking about you? Then you’re doing mind reading—one of the 10 most common cognitive distortions. Here’s the ironic thing… whenever you mind read, you almost always assume that people are thinking NEGATIVE...

New Resource—Feeling Words Chart

Being able to have the words to express your feelings is an essential skill to healthy communication. I’ve recently come across an excellent Feeling Words Chart that will help you: Gauge how intense your feelings are. Help you clarify if they’re good or...

The Squishy Side Of Life

(This post is written mostly for the men, even though I know there are women who also need to get their head around this concept. Please forgive the bias.) When you hear the word SPIRITUAL, do you think religion, church, pews, hymnals, do’s and don’ts? If...