Comments for Paul Elmore

Comment on How Do You React To Shame? by Women—7 Reason Your Marriage Is In Crisis | Paul Elmore

Women—7 Reason Your Marriage Is In Crisis | Paul Elmore — Fri, 30 Dec 2011 05:56:48 +0000

[...] When you use all the past mistakes as ammunition against your husband, you once again start tearing down who he is as a person. You are using those past wrongs to define who he is. You are shaming him. [...]

Comment on Men—7 Reasons Why Your Marriage Is In Crisis by Women—7 Reason Your Marriage Is In Crisis | Paul Elmore

Women—7 Reason Your Marriage Is In Crisis | Paul Elmore — Fri, 30 Dec 2011 05:55:58 +0000

[...] A week or so ago, I wrote about the 7 things men do to contribute to their marriage crisis. [...]

Comment on The 3 Essential Tools To Fixing Your Marriage Crisis by Linda

Linda — Thu, 15 Dec 2011 23:29:20 +0000

Wonderful points, Paul. I think the hardest one to implement is changing because you want to be in a relationship versus not changing, or waiting for your partner to change first because you value being right over the relationship…

Complicated stuff, especially since most couples wait till their on the brink. But yeah, sometimes it just takes some small steps to get the ball rolling. There’s always something a couple does right, even when all the focus on is the negative.

Comment on 6 Reasons Why Counseling Works by Men—7 Reasons Why Your Marriage Is In Crisis | Paul Elmore

Men—7 Reasons Why Your Marriage Is In Crisis | Paul Elmore — Tue, 13 Dec 2011 18:11:32 +0000

[...] 6 Reasons Why Counseling Works [...]

Comment on What Does A Good Counselor Look Like? by Men—7 Reasons Why Your Marriage Is In Crisis | Paul Elmore

Men—7 Reasons Why Your Marriage Is In Crisis | Paul Elmore — Tue, 13 Dec 2011 18:06:21 +0000

[...] What A Good Counselor Should Look Like [...]

Comment on A New Therapeutic Technique by Men—7 Reasons Your Marriage Is In Crisis (And Why It’s Your Fault) | Paul Elmore

Tue, 13 Dec 2011 01:55:50 +0000

[...] movies, YouTube, radio shows, cartoons… all of these have mocked the counseling process. (Take a look at one of my favorites.) The stereo-typical image of two dudes, sitting in an office, talking about your feelings and why [...]

Comment on 7 Facts About Feelings by Paul Elmore

Paul Elmore — Thu, 29 Sep 2011 20:22:50 +0000

You’re more than welcome. I’ve only recently found TalkTherapyBiz.com and look forward to reading through your other posts. Glad to hear you enjoyed Portland. You’re always welcome to come back and visit.

Comment on 7 Facts About Feelings by Linda

Linda — Thu, 29 Sep 2011 19:35:58 +0000

Hi Paul–

Thank you so much for posting this. I appreciate you taking the time to share, and to provide a bit of humorous background about “feelings.”

I love your city. I had the pleasure of visiting for the first time last June. It was glorious!

Hope your practice is going well.

Go mental health!

~Linda

Comment on Broken Handles by DaVonne Lee

DaVonne Lee — Wed, 28 Sep 2011 05:36:33 +0000

Very well written! I’m so glad I stumbled across this. :0) I have a family member who needs to be reminded of this truth (as do all of us). Perfect timing! Yay God! – and “thank you” Paul. :0)

Comment on What Does A Good Counselor Look Like? by 6 Reasons Why Counseling Works | Paul Elmore

6 Reasons Why Counseling Works | Paul Elmore — Thu, 25 Aug 2011 17:20:00 +0000

[...] It’s not always easy finding someone you click with. This is some of the important characteristics you should look for in a quality counselor. [...]