I wish I could tell you that doing the healthy thing will always make you happy. But, this just isn’t true. Sometimes, doing the healthy things in a relationship can be very hard and feel not so good at the moment. Parents have to deny their children lots of things because it is best for their kids. Setting boundaries with your boss, employees and coworkers. Letting your friends work through their own problems instead of rescuing them. All of these don’t feel great to do but, in the long run, work out best.