“I just want to have an EASY marriage.”
Bad News. There is no such thing as an “Easy” marriage.
All marriages require work.
The sooner you can adjust your expectations, the sooner you’ll find, well, more work.
You’re married to another flawed human being who has their own expectations of you being low maintenance as well.
And look at how disappointed they’re going to be.
What if, when you come home from a long, exhausting day at work, you walk in the door with the attitude, “Okay. Now I’m starting my real job. What can I do for you, Honey.”
And imagine how it will feel when your spouse says the same thing to you.